Why October Is the Perfect Time to Reconnect with Family Stories
There's something about this time of year that nudges us toward reflection. The leaves change colour, the weather turns crisp with morning frost, and life begins to shift from a rollercoaster of summer adventures to a steady rhythm. Autumn is a season that invites us to slow down, look inward, and think about our roots.
And what better time to revisit our family stories?
Autumn and the Stories of Our Roots
Many families have seasonal traditions. For example, in your family, October could mean bringing in the harvest, making preserves, or chopping wood before winter arrives. Autumn is also the start of back-to-school routines, organized sports and social clubs.
While these everyday moments might not feel extraordinary, they hold incredible value. When we think of our parents' or grandparents' lives, these moments prompt us to consider how our families once lived and what they cherished most. Capturing their stories—whether through writing, audio recordings, or conversations at the dinner table—keeps them alive for generations to come.
Small Questions That Lead to Big Memories
Here are a few season-inspired questions to ask your family members:
What did autumn look like in your childhood?
Did your family have any specific fall traditions or routines?
Was there a particular food, smell, or event that signalled fall had arrived?
How did your parents or grandparents prepare for winter?
These questions often spark unexpected stories—ones filled with humour, hardship, and warmth—that you'd never hear otherwise.
Why Stories Matter Most in Seasons of Change
Because October is a season of change, it serves as a reminder that time moves quickly. The people we love won't always be here to share their stories, and if we don't take the time to ask, much of our family history and their wisdom will be lost.
Documenting their memories now—whether in a notebook, a voice recording, or a family history book—means you'll have something lasting to remember them by. It's not just about recording the facts; it's about capturing the feelings, the lessons, and the voices that make up your family's story.
Bringing Your Family's Story to Life
If you've been thinking about preserving your family's stories, October is the perfect time to start. Being a season of harvest, autumn inspires us to gather, to share, and to reflect on all that we've experienced in our lives.
And if you'd like help turning those conversations into something tangible—a beautifully written book to be cherished by your children and grandchildren one day—I'd love to talk with you. Together, we can ensure your family's roots are never forgotten.